[Oh. Well. Rin can certainly identify with not meaning or intending to confess and it happening one way or another anyway.
Rin's quiet a few moments, mulling over what Roxas said.]
So you like her and you like being with her, but... are you not sure if it's the same way she likes you? Like romantically? Or is there some other problem?
[The fact that he's a Nobody also weighs on him. But, if he is developing his own heart, that shouldn't matter, right? That his feelings are his own.]
There...is another problem, I guess. It's kinda complicated for me to explain though. The easy version is, I guess, I've never actually felt these feelings before. Ever.
Omg I could have sworn I answered this already orz
[Rin isn't sure he understands how that is complicated to explain. It sounds like Roxas doesn't have experience with these kinds of feelings, that's pretty normal for a guy his age, isn't it? Maybe to have never had a crush is a little surprising, but not unheard of by any means.]
Well, the first time you feel like that is confusing for everyone, so I wouldn't worry too much about that. Since she's your friend, maybe just... try and sort your feelings out while spending more time together. Maybe try going on a date, not like as just friends, but as an actual date, you know?
[He hadn't really done something like that. Well, maybe he had, but Roxas hadn't really considered that a date. And even then it kind of turned into a disaster.]
What sort of date could I take her on though? I've never really dated before either.
Well if this is the first time you may have liked someone, that's kinda to be expected? But hmm, window shopping is pretty easy for a date around here. Or a picnic in the park, though it's a little cold for something like that...
[Rin looks thoughtful for a few moments quietly, brows furrowed as he tries to think of some other ideas.] There aren't movies here, but maybe take her to a production from the theater group? Like a play, ya know? Dinner. Stuff like that.
It's less about what you go do that will make it special and more the intent, I think. Because you can do all those things as just friends, but you can also do them as dates. Ones just hanging out, one implies romance and feelings and stuff.
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Rin's quiet a few moments, mulling over what Roxas said.]
So you like her and you like being with her, but... are you not sure if it's the same way she likes you? Like romantically? Or is there some other problem?
[Talk to him, bro.]
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[The fact that he's a Nobody also weighs on him. But, if he is developing his own heart, that shouldn't matter, right? That his feelings are his own.]
There...is another problem, I guess. It's kinda complicated for me to explain though. The easy version is, I guess, I've never actually felt these feelings before. Ever.
Omg I could have sworn I answered this already orz
Well, the first time you feel like that is confusing for everyone, so I wouldn't worry too much about that. Since she's your friend, maybe just... try and sort your feelings out while spending more time together. Maybe try going on a date, not like as just friends, but as an actual date, you know?
See if you feel any differently about it?
No worries.
[He hadn't really done something like that. Well, maybe he had, but Roxas hadn't really considered that a date. And even then it kind of turned into a disaster.]
What sort of date could I take her on though? I've never really dated before either.
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[Rin looks thoughtful for a few moments quietly, brows furrowed as he tries to think of some other ideas.] There aren't movies here, but maybe take her to a production from the theater group? Like a play, ya know? Dinner. Stuff like that.
It's less about what you go do that will make it special and more the intent, I think. Because you can do all those things as just friends, but you can also do them as dates. Ones just hanging out, one implies romance and feelings and stuff.
Does that make sense?
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Yeah, it does. I guess I just never thought of it in that way. I'm just used to the friends part.
Just...how do I tell her all of this?